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  • Chessism – A Philosophical Approach
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    I play chess every day—it's more than just a hobby for me. Sometimes, I feel like I'm addicted to it, similar to how people get addicted to smoking. Chess has taught me a lot, and I don’t see it as just a game; I see it as a framework for life. I’ve trained my brain to think like a chess game in every moment, and now it happens naturally, without conscious effort. My subconscious mind automates this process. Whether that’s good or bad, I’m not sure—but I believe it helps me.

    I want to share this idea because it might be useful to someone. I view this concept philosophically, so I call it Chessism.

    Have you ever played chess on a four-player board? Trust me, it’s one of the most chaotic and psychologically intense games you'll ever experience. Every emotion unfolds in the game, and in the end, the winner is the one who best navigates the chaos—just like in real life. Chess is a form of communication; we move pieces with logic, almost like a conversation without words. Now, imagine four people in four corners of the real world, communicating only through body language and logic. This is how I apply chess to life.

    Let me explain how this method works. Imagine your life as a chessboard, and you are the King—that’s the default. The other pieces represent different ideas, concepts, or philosophies. For example:

    The Rook represents the Butterfly Effect theory.
    The Queen embodies Stoic principles.
    The Knight symbolizes Tyler Durden’s mindset.
    The Bishop stands for a book on attitude.
    Each piece holds an idea, just as in chess, where each piece has a specific power on the board. In real life, these pieces represent the ideas you use to navigate situations.

    Now, picture this: You're sitting with someone, and they ask you a question. Your brain instantly searches through your memory for the best response. If you’ve trained this method, your mind will automatically connect the right "pieces" (ideas) to the situation, helping you form the best answer. Over time, this approach enhances creativity and generates ideas effortlessly. I consider this a skill, one that can be developed with practice.

    I'm planning to write a book about this concept and publish it soon. What do you think about this method? Share your thoughts!

    #Chessism #LifeLessons #StrategicThinking #PersonalGrowth #Chess

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    From career strategies, personal growth, relationships, finances and more, this video will teach you how to avoid common pitfalls, seize opportunities, and set yourself up for an incredible future.

    1.Don’t be a victim.
    2.Don’t break your own promises.
    3.Fear gives the worst advice.
    4.Change your alarm sound to not awaken you through anxiety but rather ease into the first awake moments.
    5.Do not enjoy youth,and do not learn lessons through having children.
    6.If you’re doing what everyone else around you is doing.It means you are doing it wrong.
    7.The door of opportunity opens only a few times make sure you’re ready.
    8.Approch problem from solution based approach.Not from why something can’t be done.
    9.It’s ok not to be ok.
    10.It’s never too late to change.
    11.I advice you to not have children yet.
    12.Your parents don’t always know better.
    13.Health is wealth.
    14.Money does bring happiness.
    15.If you’re addicted to your phone then your life isn’t interesting enough.
    16.Don’t mistake motion for moving.
    17.Be humble.
    18.Whatever you do for living,do not be average.
    19.Self awareness means knowing your strong parts too.
    20.Forgive for yourself.
    21.Say your goodbyes to people who limit you.
    22.Have a word of the year.
    23.Accept changes.
    24.Don’t be bitter about others success.
    25.Insted of talking about ,just do it
    26.If you ever said “i don’t know how to start”know that it is an excuse and you just don’t want it bad enough.
    27.Be around people who elevate you.
    28.Choose the right partner.
    29.Always question things.
    30.How you start your day often defines it.
    31.Learn from other people mistakes.
    32.Feel into your different energy points in your body.
    33.Food is more powerful in your fitness goals than sport.
    34. Help others and you will get good karma.
    35.If your knowledge is small ,it’s your fault.
    36.Be comfortable in discomfort.
    37.Don’t be scared to leave your town,if it limits you.
    38.You can’t be truly happy without gratitude.
    39.If you keep meeting “bad”people.Take accountability.
    40.Avoid gossip with friends.
    Thanks project nightfall 🫶
    #Career #Strategies #PersonalGrowth #Relationships #Finances #Opportunities
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  • Experimental Research
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    🌍 The Butterfly Effect: How Small Actions Create Big Waves 🦋

    Have you ever wondered how a tiny action can lead to life-changing outcomes? The Butterfly Effect—a concept from chaos theory—reminds us that even the smallest decisions can ripple through time and space, creating significant impacts.

    Coined by meteorologist Edward Lorenz, the Butterfly Effect demonstrates how a minute change, like the flap of a butterfly’s wings, could potentially set off a tornado halfway across the globe.

    🔑 Key Lessons:

    Small actions matter more than we think.
    Complex systems, like life and nature, are highly sensitive to initial conditions.
    Every decision contributes to a larger, interconnected web of outcomes.
    💡 Think about it: A small act of kindness, a brief conversation, or even a single idea could spark something extraordinary.

    What’s one small decision you’ve made that led to a surprisingly big outcome? Share your story below! 🌟

    #ButterflyEffect #Leadership #PersonalGrowth #SmallChangesBigImpact #Experimental #Research

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    The Power of Small Wins: The "Marshmallow Experiment" 🍬💪

    Can delaying gratification shape your future success? The Marshmallow Experiment says yes!

    In this classic study, kids were given a simple choice: eat one marshmallow now or wait 15 minutes and get two marshmallows later.

    Years later, researchers followed up with these kids and found something remarkable: those who waited for the second marshmallow tended to have better life outcomes—higher academic success, stronger relationships, and better emotional control.

    Why? The ability to delay gratification—to focus on long-term rewards over immediate desires—is a key driver of success in almost every area of life.

    The good news? Self-control is like a muscle. The more you practice it, the stronger it gets.

    💡 What’s one small “marshmallow” you can resist today to invest in a bigger reward tomorrow?

    #Discipline #DelayedGratification #PersonalGrowth #SuccessMindset #Experimental #Research

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    Founder & CEO at FME | Writer | Future Filmmaker

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    💡 Leadership Lessons from The King: "A King Has No Friends, Only Followers" 👑

    This powerful quote from The King (2019) captures a harsh truth about leadership and power. Here’s how it resonates in the modern world:

    1️⃣ Leadership Can Be Lonely:
    True leadership often creates distance. Genuine friendships may fade as roles and responsibilities take precedence.

    2️⃣ Loyalty is Conditional:
    People often follow the position, not the person. In leadership, trust and alliances are earned, not guaranteed.

    3️⃣ Decisions Demand Sacrifice:
    Leaders face tough calls that can alienate even their closest allies. Strength sometimes requires solitude.

    4️⃣ Power Attracts Self-Interest:
    Not everyone follows out of respect—many align for their own gain. Recognizing this is key to navigating relationships wisely.

    5️⃣ The Burden of Authority:
    A leader must project strength and vision, often leaving little room for vulnerability or personal bonds.

    ✨ Key Takeaway: Leadership is not just about wielding power; it’s about understanding its cost. As leaders, we must balance authority with authenticity, knowing that influence often comes with isolation.

    How do you navigate the challenges of leadership while staying connected? Share your thoughts below! 👇

    #Leadership #Power #LonelinessOfLeadership #TheKing #PersonalGrowth #AuthenticLeadership

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